Staria versus Jisatsu

[Staria]

Bought some lace leggings from Jisatsu. Everything went well. Thanks.

[Jisatsu]

Staria bought some Dollmore leggings from me and the transaction went alright. Everything was fine save for a bit of impatience for my getting to the Post Office.

[Staria]

Bought some lace leggings from Jisatsu. Everything went well. Thanks.

I would like to update my previous post. As I cannot edit it, here is more honest feedback for Jisatsu:

My transaction would have been fine with her, if there had been more open communication and slightly quicker shipping time. I paid for the lace leggings I bought from Jisatsu on the 22nd and she informed me she would contact me when the items would ship. On the 25th I sent her a followup message, only for her to tell me that she had no reliable transportation to the post office (which I did not know beforehand). I didn't have a problem and simply asked for a guesstimated time as to when they would be shipped. She simply told me she didn't know and to "please be patient". I reassured her it was fine and she finally shipped the item on the 27th. I received it on the 28th (today).

Since we're in the same state, the item didn't take more than a day to arrive (which is one reason I bought the item from her in the first place). During my followup messages Jisatsu was seemingly rude and snotty in her responses to me; and thus the reason she decided to leave me her "honest" feedback on my thread (calling me impatient, when I simply wanted to know where the item I PAID for was) -- as I am now doing with her.

Overall, consider this neutral feedback, as the experience wasn't horrible, but it wasn't pleasant either.

If you don't mind more than a week wait for your item, then Jisatsu is an appropriate seller. I would have been more than happy to recommend Jisatsu and give her the benefit of the doubt (as displayed in my prior feedback) -- but she was more inclined for honest feedback, which I am now giving. I personally will not be doing anymore business with this seller.

[Jisatsu]

I hope you understand that this could be considered retaliatory feedback. I WAS honest. It had been 2 days and you did not ask where your item was or if it had shipped, you TOLD me to give you the tracking number. I had mentioned before that I would PM YOU when I had shipped the item. Not everyone can just pick up and go to the PO the day after and nearly no one states in a thread when they will ship. I shipped the item in a timely manner and I was NOT rude to you. My feedback on your page was not even rude and the reason my last PM may have seemed so was that you threatened me that you were going to the moderators and that my honest feedback was 'unfair'.
I believe you are acting a bit rashly and childish in reguards to my honest feedback. I am sorry you feel you have to behave this way but I stick by my words.

[Staria]

I'm not going to argue over this ridiculousness, or bother throwing around insults (as you are). I'm not acting "rashly" or "childish" as you are describing, I am simply being honest. If I had been rash, I would have left you neutral/negative feedback right from the beginning. I was more than willing to ignore the fact that you had been rude and that you took a long time sending the item. Bottom line is -- I did my part as a buyer. I PAID for my item and asked where it was.

Everything is left up to interpretation. I feel that you were rude, and for some reason you felt I was "impatient". As stated in my feedback there was problems with communication. My second feedback was not retaliation, but rather a more "honest" thought of how the transaction went -- plain and simple.

I did not "threaten" you either. I simply said I was thinking about it, more-so to get their opinion on the matter. Turns out they decided to make a new thread here.

I still have the messages we exchanged as proof. Again, these messages are left to interpretation. I was never rude to you, but you were to me.

Staria [09-22-2011 02:06 AM]: Sounds good! Payment sent! Thanks a bunch!! <3

Jisatsu [09-22-2011 09:36 AM]: Awesome! I will let you know when I send them out :3 Thank you so very much ^_^

Staria [09-25-2011 09:34 PM]: Hey there! Was just wondering if you snagged a tracking number for the lace leggings? Thanks

Jisatsu [09-25-2011 10:18 PM]: Hello! I have not been able to get to a PO yet. There is only one in town and it is too far for me to walk to so I have to get a ride. As stated before, I will let you know when I am able to go. ^_^

Staria [09-25-2011 10:54 PM]: Ah, I see. It won't take too long will it? o_o; Just curious. xD; Thanks for the reply!

Jisatsu [09-26-2011 12:22 AM]: As I do not have my own car, I cannot really know. Once it is shipped it will take 3-5 days. I ask your patience, please.

Staria [09-26-2011 12:55 AM]: Sure. No problem. Would have been nice to know beforehand, ya know? ^^;;

I received the item on the 28th, in which I informed you and left you the preliminary feedback. I was willing to ignore your attitude in your 3rd reply -- when I was simply following up to an item I had purchased and paid for. I am entitled to that as a buyer. You decided to leave the feedback complaining that I was "impatient"... when really, I wasn't.

Staria [Yesterday 05:54 PM]: I think the feedback was a bit uncalled for. I wasn't impatient, I followed up a few days after I paid. I don't think that's fair, considering I did my part and paid promptly and you failed to mention in your thread that you didn't have transportation to the post office. I was otherwise understanding. I'm thinking of bringing this up to a mod now.

Jisatsu [Yesterday 06:34 PM]: I am sorry you feel that way but I left honest feedback on my standpoint. As per the rules, I am allowed to leave my honest feedback to any transaction and in my opinion, you seemed rather impatient. To bring this up to the mods will probably get you the same message in variation from them(as I have felt this way before as well and got the same message).

Those are all the messages exchanged, with no alterations. I have nothing to hide, because I do not feel guilty. I feel I was kind/understanding, even through all your shenanigans. This is all now left to interpretation and how another individual might perceive things.

I wish you luck in your future endeavors, and if you wish to continue to argue/dispute this -- by all means, but I will no longer take part in this discussion as I have nothing else to say.

[Jisatsu]

I am not sure why you are taking this to another level, Staria. You have your item safe and sound. The thing that is "rash" and "Childish" is that you are making a big deal out of something very small. It is not like I slandered your name here or anything. I honestly felt you were being a bit impatient and to say,
"If you don't mind more than a week wait for your item, then Jisatsu is an appropriate seller"
Is untrue even in your case. You did not wait over a week. You bought the leggings on a Thursday. and got them Wednesday.
There is NOTHING to be resolved here and making a paging thread for something this small is only making yourself look back, really.

[Zagzagael]

I am not sure why you are taking this to another level, Staria. You have your item safe and sound. The thing that is "rash" and "Childish" is that you are making a big deal out of something very small. It is not like I slandered your name here or anything. I honestly felt you were being a bit impatient and to say,
"If you don't mind more than a week wait for your item, then Jisatsu is an appropriate seller"
Is untrue even in your case. You did not wait over a week. You bought the leggings on a Thursday. and got them Wednesday.
There is NOTHING to be resolved here and making a paging thread for something this small is only making yourself look back, really.

This is not a Paging Thread and Staria did not post it. The feedback from both of your individual feedback threads has been moved here as the issue now is one of "negative" feedback and we do not allow members to fight back-and-forth in feedback threads. Thanks for understanding!

[Jisatsu]

I was told to post in my own defense on my feedback and I did so. To make a new thread about this ordeal is just excessive, IMO. And it is not in good taste. If Staria had further issue with this she should have taken it up with me via email, not pushed it further in my feedback thread.